You love the idea of moving to the city, but you know that your divorce might hold you back. Presently, you and your spouse have lived in a neighborhood far from the city, in a highly rural area. You don't love how long it takes to drive your kids to school or that they have no friends nearby. Your family is also a half-hour or more away, when they'd be just around the corner if you moved.
You and your spouse didn't think you'd split up, but after a short separation period, you both found that your lives were much easier without each other. You feel mostly amicable about the situation, and you're happy to move on and to have them do the same.
You were eating dinner when your spouse suddenly stood up and asked for a divorce. It looked like they'd been thinking about it for a while, and they handed the paperwork straight to you. You were surprised, because everything seemed okay.
You and your spouse don't get along, and you're divorcing. The problem is that your custody case is becoming more conflicted and complex every day. Your spouse is fighting to keep your children from you, and you're fighting back. You're both building up animosity against one another, and it's a very frustrating situation to deal with.
Pursuant to California Family Code section 721 spouses have fiduciary duties when entering a transaction with each other. This includes "a duty of the highest good faith and fair dealing," and neither spouse "shall take any unfair advantage of the other." When one spouse gains an advantage over the other in an interspousal transaction, a presumption of undue influence arises. It is up to the advantaged spouse to show the court that the other spouse was not unduly influenced in the transaction.
Explaining divorce has benefits for children, because they learn what it means to go through a divorce and how a divorce will affect them. Of course, when you talk to your kids about a divorce, you have to make sure that you do so in an age-appropriate manner.
You love having kids, and you can appreciate that your ex-spouse was once someone that you wanted to have children with. You don't want to limit their time with your children, and you don't want to be limited, either.
If you and another person want to live together but aren't going to be married, one kind of protection that you might want to look into is a cohabitation agreement. This agreement, also known as a "living together" agreement is a legal document that you should carefully consider because it allows you to safeguard yourself and to protect your individual interests and assets.
As a parent who has a goal of making divorce as comfortable as possible for your child, you may have started looking into others' stories or tips for how to help your child get through this. The trouble with that is that there's a high likelihood that you've seen some of the worst outcomes and worst situations that could take place.
As a married couple, you and your spouse simply did not work well together. You had different ideas about how to raise your children, when to spend and save money and your roles in the household. As a result, you've both decided to get a divorce.