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3 tips for successful parenting after divorce

Parenting issues happen whether you're married, separated or divorced. No one can be prepared for everything that can happen when they parent, even if they've always thought about what they'd do in certain situations.

When you're divorced, it may be more difficult to handle problems that occur when they involve your child. You may have different parenting styles or be unsure of how to punish them between homes. Fortunately, there are a few things you can do to be on the same page.

1. Keep lines of communication open

The first step to good parenting after divorce is to make sure you communicate with one another. Did your child fight with someone at school? Are they struggling with an illness? Is there an important event coming up that they're concerned about? If you stay informed, you can both make better decisions if there's a problem that arises.

2. Be clear about punishments, and hold up your end

You and the other parent should discuss how you'd penalize your child for doing something wrong. Then, talk about maintaining penalties between homes. If you can't, then your child may know they can get away with doing things they shouldn't, since they can always go to the other parent's house and go without punishment.

3. Get help

You aren't married anymore, but that doesn't mean that therapy or mediation can't help you work out how to parent your child together. With support, you can put together a good parenting plan that will work for you.

These are three tips to help with your child after divorce. If you're struggling to communicate or work together, finding ways to do so will help you raise your child more effectively.

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